Monday, July 27, 2009

We love in the language we are most comfortable with


HOW THE GARCIA GIRLS LOST THEIR ACCENTS

JULIA ALVAREZ

1991,1992,2005

ISBN-13: 978-0452268067



Well, I finally finished this novel. And I'm quite upset by how long it took me! I could have read 2 books maybe even 3 in this time, ha-ha.

So, it took me so long because I couldn't get into it. I finally started liking the book about 100 pages in. But, by then 2 week have already gone by. (the fact that I started my internship in July contributed too I suppose.)

This, novel though, hasn’t been my favorite this summer, but it kept me intrigued. It confused me a whole lot though. The author Julia Alvarez wrote the book in reverse chronological order, but that was not what confused me. It just seems like every chapters was a different story. The whole book is based on 4 girls, Carla, Yolanda, Sandra, Sofia, and their parents, however sometimes it was hard to tell whose point of view we were reading from or who was speaking or which sister it was that did this or that. Then the next chapter would be about, the housemaid or something which didn’t make it quite the easy read.

With that said though, Julia Alvarez did tackle a lot of serious issues. Alvarez spoke of the girls’ struggles growing up in America. They grew up in the Dominican Republic until their parents left the rule of Trujillo for NYC. These young girls faced racism in school more then they would nowadays, at least that is what I would like to hope for; even though the mother decided to take them to Catholic school so they do not lose their religion, but that didn’t stop the boys.

I cannot really relate to the name calling and such seeing as I grew up in the U.S and went to a school with a majority of Hispanics (Grammar school anyway), but I can feel her pain not being accepted. It was very heart-warming. But, you see, events like this in the novel did not happen until the middle of the book already. The first half of the book was about the girls now that they’ve aged, married, divorced, had kids, and Yolanda’s visit back to the homeland (like I said a lot happened in 90 pages or so). What I can relate to though, is being one of the only minorities in a classroom. At my school I typically am the only minority, if (and that’s about a 50-60% IF) there is another the student is 99% not Hispanic, so I know how it is, to feel out of place or like maybe people won’t take you seriously. However, I’m grateful that people are more, a lot more, opened now a days then they were in the times that the book was written (60’s-80’s). Which brings me to another thing, one of the girls talked about how she made friends with people by going to lunch with them and that lunch turned into dinner; that is the story, or was as a freshmen in college, at school. So many times we go to dinner and stay there till we are kicked out, or go to brunch and leave hours later, it is the best place to catch up!

One of the girls faced perverted-ness, a man driving up to her naked asking her to get in, broken bones, tears, or a man who wanted to have sex with one of them in college, meet up five years later and he still wants to (pig), and all the stories later in the novel explained why each of the daughters were who they were in present time, which helps…but only makes sense towards the end. For instance, one of the daughters kind of ran away and in a way forced a man to marry her that lived in Europe; or another daughter having a divorce or two, and one of them was a really good writer, but then things stopped...why? The daughters had to witness hardships, back home they were a well-respected wealthy family, not so much in NYC, so one can imagine the changes they had to face. Their father was a Doctor back home but in the U.S was having a hard time obtaining his Doctor’s license, but the girls were eventually sent to prep school and college.

College. Now you know by the time they got here these Dominican Republicans were becoming Americanized. That is why while they were in prep school their mother took them back to their homeland every summer, for the full summer, so that they would never forget their accent, roots, etc. This was one of the main issue the book tackled, becoming Americanized. The girls were always told though, they would fall in love in the language that they feel most comfortable in, and this idea was reinforced a few times. For instance, the reason why one of the girls left her husband was because they no longer spoke the same language; it is a pretty deep concept if you ponder on it.

All in all, an OKAY book, I’d recommend it if you enjoyed the kinds of topics I wrote about. Basically, the parents were scared to lose their daughters to America, they feared the girls would marry an American, meaning and American baby, signifying the child would only know English. They did not want their daughters to think of their homeland as a place to go get a tan. Over time though, I do not think they lost the concept their parents wanted them to treasure. No matter how much we say we hate our parents, or even our culture, it is how we are raised and something never go away. I for one, even if I marry an American, will definitely teach my child Spanish, times do change though. While I never been to my “homeland” it’ll always be a great experience I am sure, it’s important to know where we came from, and not just learn about the stereotypical customs that Americans give Latin American Countries. The four girls kind of grew up back home they know more then what an American may assume, that cannot be forgotten. Memories, rather good or bad, from childhood can be remembered. Hey, their parents took them back every summer how could they forget. So they lost their accents, it happens. As long as they are happy, with themselves despite the hardships, that is all that matters.

Monday, July 6, 2009

An Iraqi's unique Mission & fulfilling his destiny.


THE LUCKY ONE

NICHOLAS SPARKS

2008

ISBN: 978-0446579933

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Let me start of by saying I think this is the first true romance novel I’ve read and I didn’t think I would like it, but I did. I mean why spend an entire summer reading books that I know I’m going to like? So Nicholas Sparks will probably be getting a visit from me again soon – considering someone gave me a list of other books to read by him.

One of the most confusing things about this novel, but it was also one of my favorite parts too, is that towards the beginning it seems as if there are three different stories going on at once. It is not until the middle and end that everything comes together. For instance, at one point there are a few paragraphs with these two women, and then a break in the paragraphs and it would go to a police officer. Of course, all the “mini” stories come together at the end. Throughout the whole novel too there are certain details that are missing out of some of the characters’ stories, which get answered eventually. The best part is just when everything starts to come together, and from that moment on this becomes quite an action packed, love story!

So, I must say, I kind of like drama and this novel is filled with it. I’m going to try to sum up most of the events here...

Ah, which reminds me, one thing I didn’t like about this book. Sparks gives the characters their full names, like Logan Thibault, and calls him Logan for a few pages and sometimes Thibault; I know he rather be called Thibault but he does it with another character too.

..okay back on track. Thibault is an ex marine that served three tours in Iraq. One day he found this photograph, like a kind man he posted it up on a bulletin board for the owner to grab it. Ten days pass and no one has touched it, so he grabs it and puts it in his pocket. From this moment on, he becomes lucky. He wins back ALL the money he lost in cards and then some. Many times out in battle soldiers around him die, and he lives, why? In his course in Iraq he’s hit (I think it was) eleven bombs, and is still walking fine. His best friend Victor tells him that the photograph is good luck and one day he has to repay the women in the photo, of course Thibault is like “whatever,” yet he keeps the photo and lives, him and his friend Victor, who never left his side (he was superstitious like that). There is a missing detail here that we don’t find out until the end, I don’t want to say too much but let me say something bad happens and it makes Logan (yeah, you don’t like the switch of name either do you? Haha) want to find the women in the picture to somehow “pay her back.”

So one day Thibault is in his home state of Colorado when he decides his friend is right, he needs to find her (he finally believed that it was good luck). So he does some research with the information he does know, like the sign in the picture, a Davidson College shirt someone else is wearing, and he concludes that she’s in Hamptons, North Carolina and he walks all the way there, with his dog, Zeus. Then the other stories come in. He meets a cop spying on girls naked at this beach taking pictures, the cop is startled by the female kind of catching him and Thibault takes the camera. Of course they meet again. This cop turns out to be the ex-husband of the women in the photograph! He ends up finding the girl, Elizabeth, and notices that the family needs help in their Dog training place, and he applies and gets the job (he figures this is how he could pay back). All in all, the “honorable” cop isn’t that honorable now is he? Will he be able to keep Thibault away from Elizabeth?

The Cop, Clayton, is freaked when he realized that Thibault is around “his woman.” Clayton does try to drive him away, like he to all of her other ex boyfriends, but Thibault is smart. So he is working at the dog place, being friendly with the godmother and Elizabeth’s son. He doesn’t really plan any of this, taking the job was an impulse. Elizabeth doesn’t even really talk to him much at first, but of course they do eventually, I mean he is there almost all the time. He went to North Carolina, by way of his friends advice, he went to fulfil his bargin of luck, to find his destiny. Destiny. A major concept, I mean we all do crazy thing for love right? Creepy? I’ll let a quote explain things:

“In another place and time, he wouldn’t have thought twice about it. He was attracted to Elizabeth, certainty but nothing was normal about any of this. He carried her picture for more than five years. He’d searched the country for her. He’d come to Hampton and taken a job that kept him close to her. He’d befriended her grandmother, her son, and then her. Now they were minutes away from their first date.”

Was it possible to believe that anyone would latch on to something he believed would keep him safe? Do they fall in love? Does Clayton scare Thibault away? What about Elizabeth’s son? Does Thibault's Dog have anything to do with this...? Hint to the ending: it’s not one you’re going to want to miss. Of course it’s not quite a “and they fell in love and lived happily ever after,” I did say I liked drama didn’t I? :)